Dumped: Spill the Beans

[Silver_Wolf_Kitty]

A thread to discuss if you have been dumped or dumped someone and the worst(and best) ways to do it.

I usually am the one who has dumped my exs. Generally they were all jerks and deserved it, though I've had my share of times where I was dumped. I usually did it over the phone when I was younger, but I definately respect doing it in person more. Then it feels more final and its not like the other person is trying to hide from you.

[booni_monkey]

The only time I've really actually dumped someone (usually we just don't talk anymore, so it's kinda mutual) was when I 12 and the dude I was with was all happy he had a gfriend, but wouldn't pay any attention to me because he was shy. So I broke it off, because it started to get preeetty dull.

In a hunt as frustrating as this, one can't help but get angry searching for the next clue.
Secret Word: Sparring

[awesomeistic]

No, I haven't been dumped because I've never had a bf...

[delly1]

I have been dumped and I have dumped people before, but nothing was like yesterdays dump. I have been dating for three years with what is now my ex-boyfriend. He always loves to go on road trips to hang out with old buddies. Anyways on one of these road trips he got involved with another woman... The woman happened to be my cousin... I found out because she had the guts to actually tell me as if she was proud of what she has done to me. He was my light in my darkest caves and she took it away from me. I am not sure how to act at first I yelled at her and threatened her (which is wrong) but was the first reaction, then i hung up with her and cried and cried. He came home and tried to give me a kiss and I told him what my cousin said to me.

He attempted to act oblivious to what I was saying.. I said, "fine, we are going to my cousin's hosue and having a chat like "adults" about this... I never was close to my cousin, but I never belived her to hurt me that badly. So we arrived at her house and he literally had the balls to walk up to her and kiss her on the cheeks and she winked at me and slammed th door on my face! I screamed were done at the top of my lungs and ran down to the car and pulled away.. Luckily he isn't living with me so I have no garbage to throw out...

soo sorry if this is annoying to read, but I needed to vent. Luckily I am going out with the girls tonight so hopefulyl I will have a good time and calm down.. lol on the reverse side I now do have mre time to myself.. Thats the way to look at it XD he wasn't going anywhere anyways...Just works as a bloody gardner..Anyways thats my vent for the day... again sorry fro the long post that probably gives you an eye strain, but it was much needed

[Silver_Wolf_Kitty]

Aw, I'm sorry darling! I completely understand. When I dumped my last boyfriend after I was tired of the bad situation, he then came forward and started to admit that he cheated on me several times(once even with a man if what I heard was true). What a horrible thing to learn, he should've just kept it to himself. Its not like I'm unattractive, so there was no need for that. I'm glad I cut ties with him, I suspect he told me that to make me miserable. He knows I have trouble with depression and that would've sent me spiraling if it wasn't for my current boyfriend.

That's another thing, I hate it when they turn all nasty to you. I didn't act nasty to my exs, but my last boyfriend had the nerve to harass me, stalk me, and put me down left and right. I don't know how many times he accused me of only being a gold digging who.re. It was incredibly uncalled for.

[delly1]

man, sometimes men can be soo stupid....lol and they think we are complicated....