Dating Myths and Information.

[chiisan_kawaii]

I agree with everything said above.
DO. NOT. REVOLVE. AROUND. THE. BOY.
Period.
Thank you.
xD
Because if you do then they'll just take advantage of you *like said earlier* and some really bad things may happen to you.
And if you don't listen and your heart gets broken, well, that's painful beyond imagine.
So, please...
Don't go obsessed with a boy...
But don't two-time, either.
Now that's just mean ;O
That's right; don't give them decorative pillows xD
I'd want a shyish boy that was smart, but that's just me ^-^
They don't seem to hurt us that much ;O

[NotYourPrincess]

Eh, they won't necessarily take advantage of you. The relationship could just fall apart, though. Like most high school relationships do.

Love them as much as you want, because you've only got a limited time TO love while your a teenager, but just don't PLAN to marry them or spend the rest of your life with the,
It's probably won't happen.

[DarkaN]

Nothing lasts forever.

I've been in love. I knew it wouldn't last forever and i wouldn't take any of it back or try to get back with her. I loved the time we spent to gether, and i wouldn't change it for the world. Some things just aint ment to be.

it's a rare case for it to happen. But it does happen, my pairents have been together since they were like 16 years old. They didn't get married untill like 4 years ago.

[NotYourPrincess]

Same with my parents. Of course, my mom getting pregnant with me at 17 was part of the reason.

[Danica_Shardae]

You both have a very good point and I do intend to support myself the best I can if something happens. I'm not so recklessly in love to where I wouldn't stop and think about these kinds of things first before I jump to silly conclusions.

[nslaney]

My bf and I have been going out for a little more than 3 months. We haven't kissed yet, but have had a few close encounters. I think we both want to kiss but we are afraid of making the first move. Is it alright if the girl makes the first move? For any of the guys out there, would u like it if the girls made the first move instead of u?

[sunkist_girl]

i think it will be okay to make the first move. depends on the boy. if he is shy, then go ahead.


thanks for the tips ladies.

[LilMizZC3rTify3d]

Originally Posted by catewilliams

Listen to her NotYourPrincess, she's very correct.

I love my boyfriend dearly, at least I feel like I do, but I could never MARRY him. That's a bit much for such a young age.

Yeah Its rly young to say you want
to spend the rest of your life with
this boy...Well I'm not it couldn't happen (it can)
but thats highly doubtful and I'm 17 and I do love my bf
but I dont plan on getting married to him so lyk i said (highly doubtful)

[tjsgrl01]

I agree, planning your life around someone never turns out good.

Another important thing, especially for girls, don't mistake l.ust for love. Some guys will go out with you and then do all the physical stuff right away, maybe even have sex with you. And then you'll think that because he clearly is interested in your body that he must love you. That is not necessarily the case, some guys are a**es and will use you. Girls, don't do anything physical if you're not ready or to make a guy like you. If you have to exploit your body to make a guy like you, he isn't worth your time.

Of course not all guys are like that, but be careful and watch for the ones who are.

[broadway_girl_94]

• guys arn't always jerks
• passing love notes in 3rd grade does not count as 'going out'
• using someone one is just plian WORNG
• dating a guy won't get you more popular
• a two day relationship is not a relationship