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Default 07-08-2009, 10:43 AM

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...statatory rape...
It's "statutory". From the word "statute".

Anyway, I think that if you have to ask, you're probably not ready. If the only reason you're considering having sex is because your boyfriend asked you, then that's not a very good reason. You need to talk to him about it. Either you wait until a time when you're both ready, or just break up if he isn't willing to wait. There's no reason to stay in a relationship if you can't agree on what you want out of it.

^then again, that's just my opinion. I have zero dating experience, so don't take it too seriously.


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Default 07-13-2009, 10:07 PM

I don't want to have sex, even though sometimes hormones say otherwise, err, yeah.
Because I sort of wanna save myself for someone who cares about me, if I can find someone like that. If he saves himself for me, I'd feel really bad if I hadn't done the same for him, seeing as I'm the type that gets guilty easily.
If I get raped, I see myself probably going to have an emotional breakdown and go into lockdown depression for a month or more. x__x;;
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Default 04-17-2010, 09:51 PM

Never doin' it till I'm married. And with my spouse. Hopefully a MATURE spouse. Who WANTS kids. I hate people who do it for the heck of it. Then end up getting pregnant and abort their kids because "it's too much of a hassle caring for them," or "I never wanted one." I mean SERIOUSLY! Then WHY DO IT IN THE FIRST PLACE!? FOR SO-CALLED LOVE FROM A BOYFRIEND!?
ugh.
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Default 04-18-2010, 04:27 PM

I am 13,yes.. Only in 7th grade.
I havent lost it yet,dont plan to for Awhile,
i really havent had a bf,but i dont need one..
I have better things to do than hold hands
with some one i dont even "like"
i have Guy friends who joke about Dirty minded things,but
i just say your wrong ,or noones wants your sick opinions.
In this society i live in,its a bad place..
But i do live in canada and why wouldnt it be,
So many people that are 12-13 say theyve done it,
But i know theyve done it for all the wrong reasons
One,Because everyone pressures them into it..
i avoid those kind of people,even though there like all in my class -.-
So my opinion on 12-13 year olds having Sex is just wrong,
you are not in "love" you just think you are..
I dont even believe in love..
things get complicated when your that age and do it..
And ive learned from other peoples problems that its wrong..

this is just how i feel about it and well other things..


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Default 04-18-2010, 05:01 PM

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Never doin' it till I'm married. And with my spouse. Hopefully a MATURE spouse. Who WANTS kids. I hate people who do it for the heck of it. Then end up getting pregnant and abort their kids because "it's too much of a hassle caring for them," or "I never wanted one." I mean SERIOUSLY! Then WHY DO IT IN THE FIRST PLACE!? FOR SO-CALLED LOVE FROM A BOYFRIEND!?
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Big Brother commends you for your adherence to the principles of goodsex.

Seriously though, try to take it easy, okay? Enjoying sex is not actually a crime (yet).


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Default 04-18-2010, 05:18 PM

If the government does, I'm certainly in trouble.

Hime, at your age, its a good idea not to have sex. Your young and the consequences aren't often considered. However, I think once you get older, you'll find it isn't as evil as you make it out to be. What is important is to wait until you are ready and be prepared. Don't do it for the love of a boyfriend or cause its cool, you should do it in a mature relationship with someone that you trust.

Also, abortions aren't necessarily bad. I'd go and get an abortion myself right now if I was pregnant because it is a hassle at my age. I don't want children now, but I do want to have sex because its a part of a loving relationship(and I don't intend to wait another 3+ years to be married). The great thing is there are contraceptives to prevent pregnancy, which is why responsibility is so important.


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Default 04-18-2010, 06:57 PM

Not to mention that sex isn't just for reproduction. Heck, most folks do it because it feels nice and they use contraception.


On topic, I'm a definite virgin. I've not even held a boy's hand, and I'm eighteen. XD


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Default 04-18-2010, 07:01 PM

I've kissed, but that's it. I'm also eighteen. XD I intend to keep my virginity for a long, long time.


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Default 04-18-2010, 10:01 PM

Humans and dolphins are the only animals that have sex for pleasure. We're also two of the smartest... maybe we're the only creatures who realized that it felt nice. xD

But yeah, sex isn't just for reproduction... If it was, why was birth control invented? I think people should be smart (SAFE!) about it unless they're trying to get pregnant, but it's actually a fun activity too. =P

I've said too much. XD But really and truly, it's all our instincts and hormones. I actually don't like how some kids now are learning that "ALL SEX IS EVILLL! YOU WILL ROT IN HELL!" Honestly, it's all bullcrap. Sex should be a way of expressing your love. Love doesn't equal evil.
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Default 04-18-2010, 10:03 PM

Sex isn't evil at all, and I'm Christian, that's just a stereotype. Sex just isn't supposed to be taken lightly.


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