Originally Posted by Mirela
Im 13 and havent, but I dotn see it as some sacred thing. Hoenstly, I just dont have anything in the way of a sex drive yet.
I dont see why women have to percieve their virginity and so sacred and guys dont, if I wind up completely ***** and wanting to do every guy in sight, provided I protect myself, why shouldnt I? Why is it that men can 'use girls for sex' but for women it must be some big emotional thing? I have no attatchment to my virginity, im not religious, I want raised religious, in the community where I live everyone is open about sexuality and it isnt percieved as this big magical thing, because it isnt. Sex is no big deal.
I really disagree with you about your perception of guys and girls. My boyfriend views sex as being a very intimate thing which is supposed to be with someone you love and I share those views. He saved his virginity for that reason, as did I, and neither of us go running around sleeping with any man or woman in sight. Just because he is a man doesn't mean he has to sleep with everything that moves. He doesn't approve of using girls for sex or girls using guys for sex. I also don't pretend that sex is magical and get all up in arms over it.
I'm not saying that sex is some magical thing, but it shouldn't be downplayed as "no big deal". Sex is a beautiful act, sometimes very romantic, othertimes very lu.sty, but it still is important no matter what. I am very open about sexuality, as is my boyfriend, but we feel sex is important emotionally. Its disrespectful to suggest those things about girls and guys quite frankly. Maybe when you experience it for yourself you will understand, but I'm certain every girl on here would stand by the fact that sex isn't something that should be thrown to anyone who comes along because of the intimacy of the act.