virginity

[TheHayleyDoll]

O_o Isn't that technically illegal? He was having sex with a minor.

Anyway, THAT is why you should NEVER date anyone older then you at that age. Older teenage boys could take advantage of younger girls, and it's terrible.

And why can't people use protection nowadays? Parents do NOT want to look after their teenage daughter's (or son's, I guess some guys take responsibility) children. Like, look at my cousin; she's pregnant with her second child, both have different fathers (both of them don't want their children and were older men), she's only 19 (her first pregnancy was when she was 17), and my aunt is the one looking after the daughter (the one that's born) while she does basically nothing. It's sad, really. Her sister isn't pregnant and has a stable relationship with her fiancee (whom she is living with). I'm pretty sure they're sleeping together, but at least they're using birth control. It's like night and day, my cousins are. O_o

[Silver_Wolf_Kitty]

That's illegal no matter how I try to fathom the concept. I can't think of any countries where 14 is an age of consent, though I know there are 2 or 3. Its madness.

Young girl story that my mother told me. She was one of those teens who went out and had sex too young. She ended up pregnant at a very young age and miscarried. Her parents never knew and she was always extremely upset about it. Young girls should keep that horrifying image in mind when they decide to go spread their legs for every guy they "love" rather than thinking about the consequences.

[antimaie]

I'm pretty sure it's illegal. The weird thing was that I met her through goody-goody-two-shoes girl scouts. O_O

[TheHayleyDoll]

Yeah, some people I know met me through my BFF's Youth Group (I go for the games, and drama - like acting, you know... xD), and I'm not exactly a saint at all. O_o I met some amazing people though.

Anyway, yeah. It is illegal. That's the scary thing. Did you friend not realise that? Did she not realise the potential concequences?

Teen pregnancies, STD's/STI's... Why are people so stupid sometimes? Pregnancy can be prevented, so can most STD's, as long as protection is used...

[antimaie]

I think she realized it, but didn't care.
When she got pregnant, she was really upset, and decided that trying to trash herself was the way to get out. I told her that she should tell her parents and actually get an abortion if she didn't want it, but then she told me that was a stupid idea. -.-

[spirit_queen]

It's kinda scary, all that junk. I stay otu of it, and tell my friends to, or to at least be smart about it. (Most of my friends are virgins, actually.)

Protection is important, and so is topping to think about what might happen; STDs and pregnany aren't the only consequences to sex (which I'm positive we've discussed before in this thread). I prefer abstinence because it's a suree way to keep all of it away; you don't have to bed every boy you want to date.

[little_sister_smile]

I was 18 years old.... I had waited long enough and felt totally ready. It turns out that it wasn't all it was cracked up to be. I don't regret it at all but that's because I was old enough and knew the consequences.

...however, I couldn't possibly wait till marriage as I believe that its important to find someone you love but also can be with sexually. I don't mean to imply that young women should try it but when they are of age such as 18 and older. Its about using your head and feeling comfortable with the guy or girl.

[x_Minney_x]

I don't think i should, i mean, i'm only 15 1/2 and yeah.

[Rain538]

uh,i like my virginity,thanks

[barbiegirl103]

I still hold my v-card. Alot of girls in my school do not. I don't blame them. There is so much things saying that it is okay to do that like some songs. I don't know whats right any more but i am pretty sure i will wait till marriage. Defently after learning about it in health class.