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I got a new boyfriend and he's local and he likes to hug me and cuddle.
My mom thinks we are having sex. So she won't stop talking about birth control and she wants to buy the condoms.. ._______. *iswaitingtilmarriage* You're slower than a herd of turtles stampeding through peanut butter. ![]() |
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well your mom is just worried. moms do that. At least she wants you to be prepared so don't take it as something strange she just doesn't want you hurt or pregnant. At least if you have them and you are ready at some point you can trust to tell your mother and not be frightened about it. My mom would of killed me if she found out about me losing mine. she was very religious so it was a big no no. I wish I could of still to this day tell my mom. So, don't be too annoyed about it she just wants your best interests tis all.
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Every parent thinks that. My father did at one point with my ex even though I wasn't interested in that at all. She really just wants you to be safe, so you should be happy she is trying to talk to you about it because plenty of parents would just tell you to keep your legs closed then let you flounder on your own. I suggest you look into it because even if you plan on waiting until marriage, it isn't bad to have protection in case something does happen that you didn't plan(which is common for teens and usually has bad consequences since they don't have contraception). I'm not saying you need to get on birth control, but having condoms and knowing how to use them is not something to be embarassed about. Its a responsible thing to do in an age where teenage sexuality is common and dangerous.
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I lost my virginity when I was 17 and I do NOT regret it. I am still with the same guy.
My thoughts on all this are that if you feel like you are mature enough to take responsibility for such an intimate act and any consequences that come with it, then you can do whatever you want. But ONLY when you think you can handle it. Also, please try to find a guy who is also mature, responsible, and knows what he is doing. It will make things that much easier. |
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I'm 13 and I'm going to wait until I'm married. Just like my parents. Plus, if you're not married they guy really isn't commited to you so most likely, he'll dump you the second he finds out.
Anyway the boys in 8th grade are complete jerks and have no brain what so ever, even my best friends that are boys have no brains.
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