Do looks really matter that much??

[Catlover642]

Sometimes I think that people mistake style for laziness. This is NOT the cause in Miranda's examples though, thats just gross and disgusting. At home whenever I'm done from a late night shower, I usually just slip in to pj's. Hell, I am now. But I never where them in public. You look like a slob most of the time, and it shows complete laziness.

[Miranda_]

Plus, I did say that the store in question is NOT a 24/7 store. It has normal daytime opening hours, so it wouldn't be too much for people to get their clothes on before going there.

And yeah, wearing stained, saggy jammies is just disgusting. -.- The saddest thing of all, was that this guy was quite young. He wasn't some dirty old man; he was younger than me.

[spirit_queen]

Probably a lazy, hung-over college student.

I'll admit, fashion-wise, I'm pretty lazy if i'm going to go to the grocery store or school (baggy tee and sweatpants), but at least I'm all clean, and the clothes are too. I don't look my best, but if I'm not doing anything much that day, then it's not comfort.

As for high school, I don't feel the need to impres anyone there. -.- All the good boys are taken or actuallly waiting until they're older, and the rest are either abusive, slobby, stupid (I'm not talking handicapped, just obnoxious idiots), or psycho in some manner or another.

[Miranda_]

Yeah; no-one's saying you have to look like a fashion model every single day, everywhere you go. But you can, at the very least, wear clean daywear. As well as wash your face and brush your hair.

[spirit_queen]

That is mandatory for me; if I'm gonna dres comfortably, then I at least want to be clean.
And fashion models are too skiny, anwyays. -.- They don't have legs, they have walking-sticks.

looks most the time for myself dont matter, i mean i could just throw on a pair of shorts with a plain tshirt ,i dont really care as long as im dressed, when it comes to makeup, i only wear a little eyeliner and mascara. i do straighten my hair ,but atm im not going to. i do feel self concious once in awhile... but i endure what i have and so on.

[jellydino]

Because I have various physical abnormalities, I feel like NO ONE will ever like me. I have low self esteem, I feel worthless and ugly, my body anyway... I know, it's ridiculous to think like this, but everyone wants flat abdomens, sex and breats it seems with everything in the media. I wish someone would love me for me. I don't want to end up a lonely person. I'm weird, I've never had a boyfriend or been asked out. Ugh. There's some really tarty looking girls and they've had MILLIONS of bfs, they have ugly personalities though.
Someone help me here! What should I do to somehow drag my confidence up? I always make sure my hair and makeup is done. I feel my head is the only positive part of me. I don't want to come across as a showoff though. Any ideas?

[noirmali]

This is what goes on in many girl's mind, and, yes, I admit, mine too:
"Wanna be pretty. Just like everyone else."
Subconscious - Oh, wait, if you're pretty just like everyone else, then you're plain, aren't you?
"So I wanna be prettier than everyone else."

And then I end up spending forever trying to look prettier, but in the end, at night, it all gets washed off anyway.
So whatever. Who cares.