What do you think about...

[MissCrunk]

Okay, I have a Long Distance Boyfriend. (I say that rather than online boyfriend because we've met in RL, and stay contacted by phone and IM)
And well, I shouldn't feel guilty for rejecting boys at school, because I want to loyal to him right?

Tell me what you think.

[spirit_queen]

In the end, it's really up to you, I guess, but I personally am not a fan of long-distance relationships.

It's harder to maintain with long-distance, and you feel more like friends. you never really get to see each other, so bye-bye to dates and such.

And you could stay 'dating' this guy for a long, long time longer than you would if he were still here; when just chatting online, you can think more about a response withut being rude, and you're less likely to argue and such.


This gives you less of a chance with other people.

Well, I'm not exactly saying to just go dump him rudely; talk to him and ask him (demand hom to be 100% honest, and you will be too) if he feels a little guilty himself for turning down any girls who might want to date him because he's in a long distance relationship with him.

Besides, I'm also assuming he's an honest man and he hasn't considered cheating on you. O.o

[Silver_Wolf_Kitty]

You shouldn't feel guilty at all about rejecting other guys at school. If you are feeling that way, it could simply be because you are the type who doesn't like hurting people's feelings or it might be that you really want to date them. You need to first figure out why you are feeling guilty and then speak to your boyfriend about it if it is a dating issue.

As for long distance relationships, they are a lot harder to maintain when you are young and in high school. Its difficult for me now in college, though that has to do with missing my boyfriend rather than temptation. We have no issues with feeling like friends at all. Actually, we are incredibly lovey all of the time and still manage to remain close friends. There is nothing wrong with regarding a partner as a friend. In fact, it makes your relationship a whole lot closer when you are older. As for dates, we manage fairly well considering the fact that we can't see each other regularly(I won't be seeing him until the end of the month actually, though then for a few weekends in a row). Not having those dates has helped remove the materialistic aspect of the relationship, though we still give gifts to each other that are meant to be thoughtful rather than huge expenses to us.