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Default aww jezuz >_> - 08-10-2008, 01:21 PM

Ok.. Well I sorta have the biggest crush ever on this guy that I can't get no matter what.
  1. He lives NO WHERE near me [And I don't want an online-fling with this guy]
  2. He's like TWICE my age [I'm 14 he's 28]
  3. He's got a girlfriend
  4. And He only thinks of me as his little sister
Should I tell him how I feel or what?
I NEED HELP!! PLEASE!!
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Default 08-10-2008, 02:59 PM

whoa, 28? Don't you think that is a little old for you? if he doesn't even live near you that could be for the better, 14 year olds shouldn't be dating people twice their age.



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Default 08-10-2008, 03:56 PM

Also, if he did do anything with you, he'd be breaking the law. Just use some common sense and understand this for what it is; in other words, just a crush. There can never be anything between you and this guy, so just try and get over it.


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Default 08-10-2008, 07:38 PM

28!! At that age, you should even THINK about dating guys that are that much older! Most people your age might crush on classmates, not someone who's nearing his thirties! I'm not surprised he thinks of you as a little sister, because I don't think someone his age would date a 14 year old. Move on with people your own age.



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Default 08-10-2008, 07:45 PM

It is normal to have a crush on an older fellow, but under no circumstances should you give into those feelings or admit them to him. All they should remain is an innocent crush, one that you can laugh about when you get older and realize how silly it all was.
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Default 08-10-2008, 08:55 PM

Thanks. That all means a hell of a lot to me.


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Default 08-11-2008, 12:11 AM

I'm happy you seem to understand. I've had crushes on people obscenely older than me, too, so I sort of know how you feel. But it should be obvious nothing will ever happen. I like to think of it like, "I really like him. When I'm older, I want to fall in love with someone that has qualities like that," rather the alternative, which is just gross and kind of creepy.
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Default 08-11-2008, 05:02 PM

true. i mean hes probably gunna have a family by the time im older


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Default 08-11-2008, 10:08 PM

By the time your not a minor, he'd be 32. I would totally loose interest by now. And if you told him, he'd probably just laugh thinking you joking [no offence] and he already has a girlfriend and he doesnt live by you. He would probably cheat on you or breakup with you. But if you truly have feelings for him, just tell him. But I would stay friends.


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Default 08-12-2008, 04:43 PM

thanks. ^__^;;


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