*sighsigh*~(omgsh a double sigh!)

[TechnoMayhem]

Do not close this thread. My boyfriend doesn't have a TDP.

My boyfriend...he has been acting strange.
He lives in Washington dc and is about two years older than me.(he is 18; and I am 15)
So I can't just go over to his house and bug the crud about him.
I really do love him, but he tends to keep stuff away from me so I am worried right now.
His voice has no emotion to it, and if I tell him something his reply is an "oh" or "ok"?
He barely listens and I have to call his name into the phone like 6 times to get his attention.
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A few minutes ago I was watching tv and he was like "oh, im going to call you back later you seem busy" and I told him I wasn't(I really wasn't, I was listening closely to the phone and keeping my eyes on the tv, all attention basically on him) and he said okay...so it got quiet and then I kept saying "awwwweee! how cute!!!" to the little kids on AFV(Americas Funniest Videos)kissing. And he said out of no where "I am going to mute you" and its like wtf?
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It sounds to me like he's getting tired or annoyed of me.
I really love him...
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He won't tell me if anything is wrong.
So halp?

[TheHayleyDoll]

Do NOT date guys who are older at your age. Maybe a year is fine, but he's 18! Trust me, I know how 18 year old guys can be (since my friends and I are all 18 or turning 18 , and for him to date someone your age... it's not safe for you. 18 year old boys don't do that unless they're planning something (at least usually they are...). I've heard way too many stories of older boys cheating, breaking girls hearts, etc. Don't ever do it. Until you're 18, don't date someone who's technically an adult. It's very worrisome...

He does sound bored with you, from what you're saying. Since he doesn't live near you and you only talk on the phone, you can never be sure of what he's doing or if there is someone else that he's fallen for. Long distance relationships are another no-no in most cases.

If he's treating you like this, break up with him and get it over with. He's not worth your time.

[Miranda_]

Agreed. Hate to break it to you, but he's probably got another girlf on the go; maybe she was even there while you were talking to him on the phone! You're far too young at 15 to date an 18; he sounds like he's just bored with you and stringing you along. Please dump this loser before you waste yet more of your life on him.

[TechnoMayhem]

Originally Posted by Miranda_

Agreed. Hate to break it to you, but he's probably got another girlf on the go; maybe she was even there while you were talking to him on the phone! You're far too young at 15 to date an 18; he sounds like he's just bored with you and stringing you along. Please dump this loser before you waste yet more of your life on him.

Thank you.

Originally Posted by TheHayleyDoll

Do NOT date guys who are older at your age. Maybe a year is fine, but he's 18! Trust me, I know how 18 year old guys can be (since my friends and I are all 18 or turning 18 , and for him to date someone your age... it's not safe for you. 18 year old boys don't do that unless they're planning something (at least usually they are...). I've heard way too many stories of older boys cheating, breaking girls hearts, etc. Don't ever do it. Until you're 18, don't date someone who's technically an adult. It's very worrisome...

He does sound bored with you, from what you're saying. Since he doesn't live near you and you only talk on the phone, you can never be sure of what he's doing or if there is someone else that he's fallen for. Long distance relationships are another no-no in most cases.

If he's treating you like this, break up with him and get it over with. He's not worth your time.

Thanks and I know its dangerous.
My mom knows about him.
She loves him.

[TheHayleyDoll]

Guys act differently around parents. She (and probably you too) might not doesn't know who he really is. My parents would KILL ME if, when I was 15, I was dating someone 18 years old. I'm not even joking. To me, that'd be the most dangerous part. XD You're too young to really know how different boys are, personally, as they age through from 15 to 18. They change. Quite a bit.

Just because your mom loves him doesn't mean he's a great guy and the perfect one for you and that it's not dangerous. 'Cause it still is. That's all I'm saying.