Ever get that feeling that your dream girl doesn't exist?

[SinUnPedazo]

>.<

More and more lately, I seriously feel like my perfect girl is no where to be found.

What ever happened to the belief that the most beautiful girl in the room is the one that isn't even trying to be?

What happened to the girls that just wanted to be with you? What ever happened to days spent just sitting on the couch and watching movies?

Whatever happened to be happy?

When did money become so important?

If I could just have my own wonderful girl with intelligence and creativity, someone who's not mean and just herself all the time.

A girl that smiles everytime you see her.
A girl that's content with just cuddling and lazy sundays.
A girl that is happy just being with you.


>.<

[samalicous]

hey,

well to me what is see happening is that they are very few men like you left any more all men want is to have sex and treat you like an accesries and alot of girls want to get with some guy that can buy them exspensive gifts instead of just telling each other you love each other and instead of laying in on a saturday holding each other watching movies and likeing you for you, it's all about money and power and it is sad.

but anyway don't give up there are still some people left in the world that love you for you and not what u are or have and actually want to spend time with each other.

your also not the only one i am finding it equaly as hard to find a loving man who loves me for me and will want to spend time with me and not because he thinks he can get with me then through me away like im nothing

what people are doing today is degrading to both sexies and people need to open there eyes and see what love actually is.

*samantha*

[x_darkest_days_x]

I Feel The Same About Boys...
They All See to Be Liars, Fakes, Or Uncaring.
Its Crappy...
Lucy x

[FlowersFall]

omg, da whole time I while I was reading I kept sayin "aww!"...That is so sweet!

[spirit_queen]

Unfortunately, the world is changing, and the moajorty of girls change with the fads and sub-fads (yes, sub-fads. We aren't all preps, but even the people who fit into other categories change a bit to fit the times).

Heck, people get dates even in elementary school! But it's all fake; people are now being raised to date and treat each other as a needed accessery, so it'll only get worse.

I would know, for I'm hoping I could find a guy with simple loving qualities myself (with the exception of than my childhood friend, who I can only see as my friend).

[Coloured_Dreams]

Hey there's loads of us who'd like a guy to treat us like that! But they all want woo hoo and to treat you like a possesion rather than a person. I don't think I'll ever marry.

[Sweet_and_Fragile___x]

I have to agree with Coloured_Dreams.There are many possesive people (men and women) who only want to abuse of their partner.Sadly,a lot of people are like that-as if they don't have feeling themselves.They probably don't have a heart anyways.

I'd love to meet a guy that would treat me sweetly! (That isn't in my family)

I don't think I will marry either....

[tinkxgirl]

Yeah, I feel the same way with guys.
Everybody at my school depends on looks.
(So I'm left behind. I'm the quite shy girl)
Ex.
My BFF, knows I like this one guy, who isn't the hottest guy, but he's got a great personality. Everytime he comes up in conversation she's always like, "But he's so ugly!"
And then I walk away like, How could you be so self centered?
-Mandi

[cheetahja94]

tinkxgirl, that is how i feel about who I like.
And everytime I say something about him they laugh cuz he is "ugly." I honestly think he is cute...
ugh! i mean, looks do count, you have to admit. Would you say yes as quickly to an "ugly" guy as you would a scorching hot model-type guy? Even if they had opposite personalities...
I've had my share of all the drama involving relationships and stuff, and it is stupid. All they want is one thing. Luckily at this age its mostly as far as you can go WITHOUT the possibility of getting prego, but still...
Im going into highschool this year and I'm a little nervous. I have met some really sweet guys who don't seem like they would be like everyone else, but sometimes they just put on a nice show to hide what they really want. That is how one of my friends is...and its quite sad actually.
I truly believe everyone has a soul mate, who they are meant to spend the rest of their lives with. Right now, guys are stupid and immature. But usually as they get older, they change. We just have to wait, cuz we aren't going to meet someone that we are meant to spend the rest of our lives with right now. And if we do, chances are they are going to seem like all the rest of them.
Don't say you are never going to marry. You're young. We all are, really. And just cuz all the guys now are immature, it doesn't mean that in college or even in highschool you will find someone that is absolutely perfect.
There is this quote, "Someday someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else," that I really believe in. We just have to be patient. =)

[spirit_queen]

^^ Yay! Cute quote!

One must also consider how visual guys who are in middle school and high school are; they could be ssweet people, but are so busy chasing after the prom queen-type girls that they don't see the ordinary people, then turn around and say girls suck. T^T Not fair!

But it's also a teen-school thing; mean are constantly in a stupid competition with one another ffor the most part. A perfectly nice guy to have as a friend or even a bf might go after a girl his friends talk about all the time as a 'maja hottie" just so he can be on top. He might not even like her, and wonder why the heck he's dating her, only to be reminded why when he's around his friends.

Don't go and say "EWW! That's horrible!" It's just weirdo guy mentality; that weird guy might not be a bad person, and his friends might not be so bad, guys just like to look "macho" and always go for the "hottie", even if they like someone else.

I learned this form a guy, gals... it's really quite interesting to have a guy being so honest! (no, he's not my bf, or my crush!)