[Aussiemum777]

Gracie wont suffer Lovie, You are an intelligent human being with a fantastic husband and a beautiful daughter, you will learn to get along with people, the more you worry the worse it will get, I know that it is hard not to worry (trust me I am the best worrier ever!) be yourself and if people dont like you then stuff them, your husband loves you, Amy loves you and I am sure there are others that like you too.
As far as Gracie goes she will always have friends even if you dont becme friends with the parents, I used to drop my kids off at play dates and then pick them up, not a lot of conversation took place, smile be friendly and thats all you need to do.