03-06-2010, 10:20 PM
No guy I know would ever go out with a 13 year old girl. Of course, I'm turning 20 pretty soon, so that would be pedophilia. XD Regardless, at 17, none of my friends would have thought of going out with anyone under 14, because they would all have found that gross and call whoever did, a pedo.
Of course, are you sure they like her? I mean, as you get older, flirting changes and maybe they only like her as a friend.
At least... I hope that's it. o_O
EW. I literally feel like vomiting at the topic. >.< Though a 3-5 age difference does not seem like a lot in the ADULT world, when you're a teenager, you mature at a much different rate and someone who's 16/17 is nearly an adult, when a 13 year old is still a child.
EDIT: Also, your friend doesn't sound like she acts 16 or 17. Smoking does NOT make you cooler/older. At that age, it shows immaturity instead of maturity. Your friend sounds immature to me.