07-08-2009, 12:04 AM
If you are not emotionally ready, then don't. Also, don't tell yourself you are when you aren't. You could very well regret the decision. Think about it this way, you will always remember who was your first partner. Do you want this guy, this place, this moment to be forever remembered? I doubt it. If he throws up a fuss, leave because he's not interested in you, he's interested in having sex then leaving. There are plenty of guys who will respect you more for waiting for the right moment. You'll know when its there, you feel it completely in your gut that everything is right.