07-07-2009, 05:45 AM
Not to mention the fact that having sex for the first time should be an experience you remember for all the right reasons; for example, cuz you love the guy and have a connection with him. Not cuz he dumped you the day after, gave you a disease or got you pregnant.
If you are under the age of consent, then it's actually illegal to have sex so I wouldn't if I were you. Under sixteen, you are rarely mature emotionally enough to deal with sex and everything that goes with it. Seeing as you are concerned about him ditching you and bragging about it, means that deep down you know the answer. Say no, and if he leaves you cuz of that, then at least you can hold your head up high and keep your dignity intact.
Merging this into the main Virginity thread where it belongs; you also might want to read some of the advice already given there. ^^