Well, if you want to shave you should talk to your mom about it. when i wanted to shave my mom said no, but later on, after i told her how i felt, and blah, she said that i was only allowed to wax. though shaving does not hurt- i would wax- after about 4 times you will get used to it, and your hair will be lighter.
Peace, Love, Friendship,
xoxo
Princess