08-03-2007, 11:41 AM
I never think anyone who lost it at an early age is "bad", just unwise. Waiting for the right moment, when you're truly in love, just makes it so much better than a quick bang in the backseat of a car or behind the bus shelter, with a boy who doesn't stick around. Waiting shows you respect yourself, and if you don't respect yourself, you really can't expect anyone else to. Even after you've lost your virginity, that doesn't automatically mean you have to give yourself to anyone who asks. When I got back with my boyf, after a brief hiatus, we didn't start doing it again straight away as he had to earn back my trust.