07-29-2007, 10:16 AM
I lost mine already, but I rather not go into details. You can't plan it really. You can't say, "I'm going to lose it on my 15th birthday" What if you don't even have a bf then? You aren't just going to go out on the street, looking for some guy around your age.
It's usually just in the heat of the moment. Make sure you talk to your bf about how far you're willing to go and make an agreement or something. Like, maybe making out is as far as you'll go. Then, if you tell your bf, he'll know not to drive you past there. Well, if he doesn't listen, he still might try to force you. But then it's more like rape.