[Danica_Shardae]

I don't think you should have to get that made up just for a guy to notice you. Not every guy wants a dark skinned blonde chick wearin a mini skirt, halter, and high heels you can barely even stand in. You may think that you know a lot about what guys want, and you might be right, but I don't think you should have to go out of your way to change the way you look so drastically, that people might not even recognize who you are. Being in a relationship isn't about the way you look. It's about the way you feel about someone.

(But, yes, it is good to flirt.)

I dunno, but my bf is always like "OMFGWTFBBQ CUTE!" whenever I wear leggings.
You should probably try leggings =D And then maybe like a cute dress to go with it...something with ruffles...or if dresses aren't your thing, try a cute but modest skirt and a top with a flattering neckline. It shouldn't have to be overbearing and flashy.
No, you don't have to wear make-up to look cute.
In short, you should wear something that your figure looks good in.

Be confident =D