07-09-2007, 10:33 PM
I think that people should only have se.x when they know that their body is ready for it. And people probably won't even consciously realize that. I think that you only know for sure when you have met the person that you absolutely know for certain that you truly love and trust with all your heart. It's only when you know that you are ready to take a commitment and devote yourself to the person you love.
I suppose I am talking about marriage. But if you are at the point when you know that you love someone so much, that you are willing and wanting to spend the rest of your life with them, take that as the thought that tells you that you are ready for se.x. Just play it safe and keep the love and compassion that you have for your special someone alive and burning.
(Probably the most preachy and probably cheesiest thing that I have ever said.)