Was; now I'm settled and proud. I had a relationship that ended badly, so afterwards I determined to stay single and enjoy myself without trying to get another boyf. I had great fun going out in a group with my friends, and having girl's nights in; also I had one or two one night stands just for fun. When I met my current boyf, I was ready to settle down. We've been together for 3 years and we're now one of those sickeningly happy couples!