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(February 08, 2008 by JeZz Send DollMail )
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You’ve got a boyfriend you really like. You’d like to keep him around for awhile, yet things haven’t always gone smoothly in your past relationships. Are you in danger of losing this boyfriend, too? If you’re doing any of these annoying things in your relationship you just might be on your way back to single.

#5 - Baby Talk

If you talk to your boyfriend like he’s six months old, he’s not going to stick around very long. Boys love to be coddled and taken care of, but in his world that means you make him a cake for his birthday and tell him how much hotter he is than his friends. It doesn’t mean you embarrass him by calling him “snookems,” “tubby-wubby” or “grumpy-wumpy” in front of his friends or parents.

#4 - Trash Talk

If you’re constantly ragging on his friends, ex-girlfriends or favorite bands, you’re on thin ice. You may think it makes him feel good to hear that his ex-girlfriends are all trashy losers but he did have feelings for those girls at one time. And you can never be sure that he doesn’t still have some secret feelings left for an ex, so tread lightly. Focus on how great the two of you are and leave everyone else alone.

#3 - Playing Queen of the World

If the world revolves around you and you aren’t afraid to let the world know it, you’re looking at trouble. Boys will play along with the “Queen of the Universe” routine for a little while if they like you, but after awhile your guy will get tired of all the bowing and scraping you require on a daily basis.

We know you’re special, and so does he. You don’t have to be obnoxious about it. Keep your ego in check and just enjoy spending time together. You can boss the world around when you really are queen or president someday.

#2 - Holding Him under Lock and Key

Your boyfriend had his own life before he started spending time with you. Presumably he had his own friends and his own hobbies. If you insist on spending all of your free time together doing whatever activity you want, he’s going to start squirming. Then, if you don’t “allow” him to hang out with his friend or act like a pouty baby when he wants to go out with the guys for a night, you’re killing your own relationship. The guys were there first, whether you like it or not.

#1 – “You Complete Me”

Girls love that line in Jerry McGuire. But most boys, unless they are very dramatic and sentimental, don’t want to hear or even think that some girl needs him to be a whole person. Boys want you to be your own person before they show up. You should have your own friends, your own favorites and your own hobbies. A boyfriend is someone fun to hang out with, not necessarily your future husband.

Coming on too strong and professing your undying love for a boy after going out for two weeks is the number one way to make him turntail and run like crazy. He wants fun, not a future wife. Let your boyfriend make the first declaration of love after a few months. Otherwise all of your initial-carving, married-name-writing, and love-sick-puppy-panting are just going to scare him away.


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SeasonSweetMod

24/Female
Canada
Posted On: July 28, 2008
Another tip?

Don't flirt with other people. It's the easiest way. Your boyfriend catches you flirting with his best friends, you're gone.

|~|~|Rocky|~|~|
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Smellybuzz

24/Female
Yorktown Heights, NY
Posted On: June 26, 2008
Good, Good tips. There are some girls I know who are absolutely SCARY when there in a relationship.
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summergirl1215

19/Female
FL
Posted On: March 15, 2008
umm boring
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Blondie_30

22/Female
Canada
Posted On: February 28, 2008
nice tips.
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denim_girl_101

35/Female
Cleveland, GA
Posted On: February 23, 2008
lol. nice tips. you missed one: being all like, "i'm in charge here! i set up dates!!!!!" that is one of the worst ways to lose a guy friend.

denim_girl_101
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fairy_dust11

18/Female
Spring, TX
Posted On: February 19, 2008
Tee Hee that's funny but I doubt very many girls do those things. If they do then I am seriously, SERIOUSLY unexposed to the real world.
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chompyoliver

19/Female
Posted On: February 16, 2008
Dorfumple. Yeah. Too true. *nods head* Yupp. I totally agree with these tips.
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dwieselmcallis

26/Female
Lafayette, LA
Posted On: February 13, 2008
Wow. That sounds like all the stuff my last boyfriend did. I can't STAND clingy people, especially not clingy BOYS.
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whiteskyewarri

20/Female
Canada
Posted On: February 12, 2008
these are good tips. but in my last realtionships, it was mostly because my bf's were jerks. thats why we broke up.
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KJ10

17/Female
United Kingdom
Posted On: February 12, 2008
Stuff that, my boyfriend talks to ME like I'm a six month toddler!!!!

KJ

♦ randdddoooooooooom
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dadezgurl

21/Female
Antarctica
Posted On: February 12, 2008
funny
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superhero_1

25/Female
United Kingdom
Posted On: February 12, 2008
Oh And U Forgot Cheating On Them

-Kayley,x
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AngelaPRETTY__

21/Female
Woodbury, MN
Posted On: February 11, 2008
TDP needs to put up some tips on how a boy can loose a lover .

but I did like these tips .

I figured them out on my own .
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gothicflower

23/Female
Latvia
Posted On: February 11, 2008
Good tips for some girls, but I think some boys need to read them too, for example my ex couldn't understand that I have my hobbies and friends to meet and don't have to give all my free time to him. And to Izzy_zy_Rocker - There are times when a boyfriend can just drive you crazy and not by good meaning
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The_Aquanator

20/Female
Japan
Posted On: February 10, 2008
psh, organic, u SO aren't! I am! Duh! LOLZ, rock on JeZz!
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