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(January 30, 2008 by JeZz Send DollMail )
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Okay, Iíll admit it Ė Iím a flirt. A big one. Even when Iím dating someone, I canít help myself. I have to flirt with boys around me. My only excuses are that Iím young, not really committed to anyone, and that Iím just so good at flirting! Here are a few of my all time favorite flirting moves.

The Brazen Flirt

Your mother may tell you to never make the first move, and she might be right. But it is plenty of fun to be a bit brazen and take a boy by surprise. If you see a cute boy and want to get to know him a bit better, be bold and walk right up to him. Hold out your hand and introduce yourself.

Start with your name, and if youíre really bold and youíre getting a good reading from the guy, you can be even more brazen and say something you really mean. For example you might say, ďHi! Iím Jessica, and I knew I had to come over when I saw your eyes. I just love a guy with green eyes!Ē

If youíve picked a shy one, he might not know how to respond to your brazen introduction, but donít back down. If he stares at you blankly, just laugh, flip your hair and tell him, ďIt was very nice meeting you, maybe Iíll see those eyes around, eh?Ē and walk off. I guarantee heíll follow or find you very soon.

The Mysterious Flirt

If youíre not bold enough (yet) to be brazen, never fear. The mysterious flirt has served me well many times. Itís very easy to do Ė in fact, youíll be so mysterious the guy will have to do all the work just to talk to you. Hereís how to play this one:

See a guy you think is cute. Immediately get very busy with your friends, reading a book, gazing out the window or doing anything but looking at him. Casually glace over and watch him until he looks around and sees you. Then let your eyes linger for a millisecond longer than you would normally and go right back to your other activity. No smiles or secret eye movements.

Your guy will wonder if you were staring at him and be impressed with your confidence. Heíll also wonder if you just were looking of into space or taking in the whole room, not really him. The mysterious flirt can take a bit longer than the brazen approach. You might have to work on the guy all day or even all week. Keep pulling the same routine. Watch him long enough to get his attention then casually go back to your own thing. Youíll drive him crazy wondering if he should talk to you or if youíre just looking around the room.

By the way, if he never seems to get it completely, after a few casual glances, hold his eyes for a few seconds and smile knowingly Ė like you know exactly what heís thinking and what color underwear heís wearing. Then go back to your other activity. If he doesnítí clue in after that, heís not worth the effort.

The Friendly Flirt

The friendly flirt is right between the brazen flirt and the mysterious one. The friendly flirt is a technique that lets you be friendly to everyone, but especially friendly to cute boys. Be happy and cheerful as much you can. When your guy tells a joke, laugh and compliment him on his joke, his free throws at the game last night, or his shoes. It doesnít matter, just be friendly.

Make eye contact with your guy and smile each time. You may just be friendly to everyone, but if you make eye contact and smile enough times, youíll be very approachable as far as males are concerned. After all, a boy has to take a risk to come talk to you. If youíre already talking and laughing as friends or classmates, youíre one step ahead of the game. Show him youíre interested in a bit more than friends by lightly touching his shoulder or hand, leaning into him when you laugh and, of course, smiling at him as often as possible without scaring the poor guy. Pretty soon, you might just be smiling up at your new boyfriend!


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devilheaty

22/Female
Sacramento, CA
Posted On: February 1, 2008
You know i really like this guy in class. Ofcoure my friends say that to me but i dont seem to have the braveness to tell him that i like him alot......HELP!!!
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tootoorooroo

20/Female
Hanford, CA
Posted On: February 1, 2008
I realy like this guy in my class and I'm not sure if he likes me but I'm going to try these tecniques!thank you
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coleyfelix

19/Female
San Marcos, CA
Posted On: February 1, 2008
I'm a big flirt, too! Well, at least most of the time.

I find I am bold and flirty around the guys I just want to be friends with and are really unattractive, but shy and awkward around the ones I want to like me.

I think out of all of these I'm the bold flirt. ^_^
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belladoggy

21/Female
Palatine, IL
Posted On: February 1, 2008
I don't know how to flirt (though my friends deny it). I always get caught =/ This was a good article.

And Johan_Anderson, you don't know the half of it. I can be bold; I asked a my ex-guy friend to homecoming. He said he's think about. So I checked bakc a couple days later to see if he'd decided. Nada. I checked in a gain, and he said he wasn't going. The rejection hurt, but I could deal with it. But then I found out he had asked someone else! Rage took over. I haven't spoken to him since. Stupid liar.

All guys my age are either taken or idiots.
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Gaara_Lover95

21/Female
Hollywood, FL
Posted On: February 1, 2008
i'm just a friendly flirt!

my best guy friend is sssoooooo cute!

kool article!
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whiteskyewarri

21/Female
Canada
Posted On: January 31, 2008
im a HUGE flirt. like the biggest of all my friends. its kinda evil because sometimes i lead guys on a bit, just for fun. i know im so mean! But im trying to stop. Besides i need a bf to get my ex off my mind. *sighs*
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Johan_Andersen

20/Female
West Hills, CA
Posted On: January 31, 2008
that was an interseting article~I would love to try one of them,but i'm WAY~ too shy*blush*and besides,all the guys at school are jerks anyway.maybe next year...
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xH00D_

106/Female
Union City, GA
Posted On: January 31, 2008
haha.

i flirt ALL the time. :]]

i always get attention cause of that. xDD

awesome article.

♥L0V3-Cindy
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Blondie_30

23/Female
Canada
Posted On: January 31, 2008
I Dont get it.. i dont rele like theis article but ok
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never_more

22/Female
Arvada, CO
Posted On: January 31, 2008
hehehe, i'm clueless when it comes to flirting! thanks for the article!
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amber_luvs_ani

28/Female
FL
Posted On: January 31, 2008
Op! I forgot to mention how wonderful and insightful this article is! How silly of me!

~amber~
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amber_luvs_ani

28/Female
FL
Posted On: January 31, 2008
I don't flirt anymore (not that I don't know how to 'cause I SO can) because I'm just that committed it Kevin.

And if Kevin ever even LOOKS at another girl, I slap his hand with the nearest blunt object and watch him yulp in pain. Then I laugh as he tries to apologize. Omg, I'm so evil.

~amber~
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CinnamonDragon

20/Female
Madagascar
Posted On: January 31, 2008
This was one of my favorite artical's yet..! Lol.. I'm not brave enough to do anything... That might explain way I don't have a boyfriend... lol

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Maddie705

20/Female
Willowick, OH
Posted On: January 31, 2008
Such a friendly flirt i am.

He is my Guy friend,but he is so....cute!!!
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antimaie

20/Female
Bahamas, The
Posted On: January 31, 2008
I'm more of the "mysterious flirt" :]]

btw

FOURTH!
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