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  The Rules of Teenage Romance (Doll Article)

(December 29, 2006 by support Send DollMail )
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Valentines day dollsSurely you've noticed that most teenagers, girls in particular, are almost consumed by one thing – romance. Boys, of course, are not as interested in the romantic aspects of a relationship, but girls seem to be enchanted with the thoughts of first kisses, hand holding, and of course preparing for dates and dances. Granted this does not apply to every girl everywhere.

Some girls could care less about dating, and prefer to hang out with friends or absorb themselves in other things. But who's to say those same girls are secretly reading magazines with those adorable little love quizzes and horoscopes dreaming of a certain someone? Well, openly or not, there are rules to be followed if your interested in a good, juicy, teen romance. Now, I'm not preaching to you, but you might want to listen up – I've done this successfully a few times...

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Rule #5 – Listen to Your Friends

It seems silly to say this, but your good friends will know you better than any boy – at least until you're engaged or married. That means if you've started talking to someone at school or online and your friends are less than enthusiastic, they might have a good reason. Sometimes we are blinded by love (or lust) and can't see what a jerk a guy is to others around him, and we certainly can't hear what he's saying about you to others.

Your friends might love a guy, which is great so long as they know he's yours, or they may hate him. If they tell you a guy doesn't seem as great as you think, take a break in your angry defense of him to think – could they know something you don't? If all else fails, enviably, when a guy turns out to be less than you originally thought he was, let your friends say, "I told you so," and then move on. It'll be their turn soon enough.

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Rule #4 – Friends, First

There are two pieces to this rule: The first is that your friends are always more important than some guy. The second is that you should always make it a point to be friends with a guy BEFORE committing to being his girlfriend, hence the "friend" in the term girl-FRIEND.

As far as keeping your friends, don't ditch them just because a guy pays attention to you or you want to flirt. You can easily balance your time between a boyfriend and your friends. Unless you are in your twenties, it is highly likely you will eventually break up with a guy and not marry him, so don't lose your friends over him. Unfortunately, this is true for many girls in their twenties as well. Also, don't date your friend's exboyfriends. Nothing good will come of it...

If you get to know a guy before taking on the mantle of his girlfriend, it makes things much easier. How embarrassing is it when you have nothing to say to the light of your life simply because you don't know anything about him other than he has a cute smile. Get to know him the same way you would a new gal pal. Then you can hang out together without feeling weird all the time.

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Rule #3 – Keep it Under Control

No, we don't mean to sound like your mom or your gym teacher, but girls usually get the job of keeping boys in check. As unfair as it seems, boy hormones tend to take over their brains from time to time, but girls, of course, are smarter and can take control when things start to go haywire. So just keep that in mind. It goes without saying that you would never want to hang out with anyone who wasn't going to listen when you're laying down the law.

Also, if you're interested in a boy, be careful how you show your affection. Acting out of control with too many sugary sweet love notes or getting into fights over him may not be the best way to catch his eye. Smile a little, flirt a little, send a quick IM, but control yourself. He's supposed to be doing the chasing – not you!

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Rule #2 – Look the Part

You've seen it both ways in the movies. Some girls land guys at their feet without brushing their hair and running around in sweats all the time. Others strut their stuff down the halls of the school looking like fashion models. There do seem to be many more successful stories with carefully coifed girls, however – Cinderella comes to mind.

With that in mind, take a bit of time with your appearance. Get a cute new haircut, play around with you favorite style. You never have to change who you are for a boy, but you might want to play up some of your favorite assets with some nice wardrobe choices. Naturally, you can try out different outfits and even hairstyles here on the Doll Palace.

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Rule #1 – Be Comfortable

The most important rule of dating as a teen is to be comfortable. If you're miserable every time you're around your new boyfriend or love interest, he might not be right for you. If you're embarrassed, shy, angry, or bored, there is probably a better guy out there for you. Your guy friend might be terrific, but if you feel like a puppet or like you have nothing to say, he is probably just the wrong guy for you.

A really good relationship means you can talk about just about anything, play around, sit comfortably together in silence, and agree on important things like how much butter should go on the popcorn and what is okay and not okay to say in front of your parents. Never change yourself for a guy. Simply change guys until you find the right one for you!


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RockStar27

30/Female
Canada
Posted On: September 25, 2008
My friends really think i need a bf and i kinda agree. My bff rly wants to ask her brother out 4 me. I rly like him but im only 12(so is he). Everyone whos anyone at my (very small) school has a bf or gf. Everyone started dating in 5th grade. Im in 7th grade. this kinda makes me feel out of place but i dont wanna date some 1 just because i want a bf. What shud i do?
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PudnMud

17/Female
Kannapolis, NC
Posted On: May 18, 2008
if olny i had the guts to tell my crush i like him im to much of a wimp
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PudnMud

17/Female
Kannapolis, NC
Posted On: February 9, 2008
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socute2

21/Female
Romeoville, IL
Posted On: November 29, 2007
I need a boyfriend first
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Mrs_11

21/Female
Jacksonville, FL
Posted On: June 18, 2007
IM MISERABLE AND ITS ALL BCUZ OF MY LOVE LIFE. I SIT AT HOME EVERYDAY WONDERIN WHEN THAT RIGHT MAN WILL COME. IVE HAD ONE B4 BUT IT DIDNT WORK OUT. IM SURE ILL FIND SUM1 WHEN I GET INTO HIGH SCHOOL
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plushie_dog1

20/Female
Eloise, FL
Posted On: May 31, 2007
It is better to wait when all 'youngsters', not in the teen yrs... Yes, I must admit I did like boys and wanted for them to like me back, but I did not want to date, I knew it wouldn't truly be LOVE, especially at such a young age, it was only the fact of getting attention from a guy, hearing, seeing the guy get 'goo goo' over a girl because of his hormones, its a funny, yet, natural thing for young dudes to go through (girls you can't blame them....), it makes a girl feel good, an ego booster, but again, in my opinion, its puppy love the day you were born to 19 yrs. old....

-Quinta_Gonzale

in MY opinion can fall in love at any time.if you can imagine yourself with someone and plan your whole future with him in it, the you are in love. love can happen at any age. i know a guy who met a girl when he was six and was best friend with this girl. years later they met online and started dating. later, they found out who each other was. they got married (sadly the girl died in April).:ang
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shy_girl_9

33/Female
Castleton, IN
Posted On: April 20, 2007
When I met my husband, I was 16. Now I am 26, we got married four years ago. I wasn't really into boyfriends when I was small. Oh well... (Max was my third boyfriend)
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Rhiannon100

107/Female
United Kingdom
Posted On: April 11, 2007
this is a great help for my love life
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Plplpm

23/Female
Gillette, WY
Posted On: April 7, 2007
This artical helped me a lot with my love life
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Keanelover1289

21/Female
Posted On: February 12, 2007
So true, so true.....
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daddysgurl0907

19/Female
Comstock Park, MI
Posted On: February 3, 2007
sometome when yr in love with someone all u see it how wonderful there are and then when u look in the mirror all u see are yr flaws
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flopy12

24/Female
Mount Holly, SC
Posted On: January 24, 2007
this thing is right im sending it 2 1 of my friends
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Ramones_chica

26/Female
Lacey, WA
Posted On: January 23, 2007
These are some great tips most girls say that friends come first but dont always stay when their guy is there it is nice to see someone else thinks the same thing
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halo626

21/Female
Posted On: January 21, 2007
thats totally right! i'm sending this to my friend who didn't listen to me the first time.
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ilovemycoke

106/Female
Groom Creek, AZ
Posted On: January 19, 2007
definetely true!!!


soooooooooo helps me. I looooove rrule #1 most of all!!! good job u rule

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