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(September 24, 2008 by JeZz Send DollMail )
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Itís interesting how hard most girls work to find a boyfriend they like, and then how hard they seem to work at losing him again. As many girls quickly learn having a crush on a boy from afar and then being committed to him and all the habits you didnít realize he had are two very different things. The quiet guy in class is mysterious and hot. The boyfriend who barely speaks to you is just plan annoying. This doesnít mean you donít like him or that you want to hurt him, indeed, the opposite is usually true. Which brings you to a tricky place Ė how do you dump him?

ďToo Much, Too FastĒ

When youíre ready to move on, simply tell the boy the truth. You enjoy his company, but the relationship is moving just a bit too fast and itís a bit too much for you right now. Being around him is fun, but you simply donít have the resources (time, emotions, whatever) to commit to being his girlfriend. Usually this statement is followed by a ďLetís just be friendsĒ kind of comment. If heís feeling the same way Ė like the two of you arenít particularly soul mates, there is a very good chance you really can be friends. Of course, if you wait until ugly words have passed or things have gotten way awkward, you can kiss the chance of friendship, good-bye.

ďI Like You, but I Donít Love YouĒ

If you want to dump a guy who seems passionate about you, itís a shame to burst his bubble but it just has to be done. The tough guy you had a mad crush on is suddenly planning your date to prom in three years and youíre a bit weirded out by the whole thing. Sure heís cute, but youíre not into the whole three year relationship thing with the guy Ė heís not THE ONE.

Unfortunately for you, he seems to think you are HIS ONE, so youíll have to let him down gently. Simply explain to your soon-to-be-ex man that you care about him, but you donít feel passionate about him. You like him, but you know now that youíll never love him in the way he deserves. If heís truly wounded, he might ask you to stick around and see if you ďlearn to love him.Ē Take it from me Ė this is a bad idea. It will only hurt more to break up for real in another month or so.

Do Nothing

A popular choice among the cowards of the world is to suddenly stop being available to your man until heís forced to break up with you. Some see this as letting the guy save face, but itís really just you being a chicken. If you donít want to be with the guy, suddenly ignoring his calls and walking away from him when heís talking to you is just rude. Heís likely going to get confused and hurt long before he gets mad and vengeful. Even then he probably would appreciate he truth. So do both of you a favor and skip the dramatics. Let him know when his time is up Ė trust me, heís man enough to take it. If not, itís obvious you did the right thing.


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nikki_nati

19/Female
Valley Stream, NY
Posted On: April 16, 2009
i agree with ellie emo, i love these kinds of articles!

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Dragon_lover12

23/Female
Warrior, AL
Posted On: October 21, 2008
hehe I had a guy that was already asking me if i wanted kids when we had been dating for a week and hadnt even been on a date. then he asked me if he could go back to his ex which i agreed to because I needed time off too. Well turned out it didnt work with his ex and he wanted me back, but lets face it he was creeping me out a bit
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never_more

21/Female
Arvada, CO
Posted On: September 28, 2008
I once had to dump a guy cause he was moving waay too fast. Third DAY of knowing him (not date, DAY) he tells me he loves me, and that I'm the most beautiful girl in the world to him. We weren't really dating, just hanging out. It really, really freaked me out, so I let him go. I see this as good advice, but what about abusive boyfriends/girlfriends? You should put up advice on that, as so many girls/guys are uneducated on that matter.
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crazylikeme13

23/Female
Bronx, NY
Posted On: September 27, 2008
I really need helpon how to make a guy actually look at me BUT ILL REMENBER THIS ADVISE...

9/10
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Ellie_Emo_xD

19/Female
Australia
Posted On: September 27, 2008
yep its good advice, i love these kind of articles!

*3rd to comment!*

ellie xD
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WHiTELOvEx

15/Female
Bow Mar, CO
Posted On: September 26, 2008
YAY! 3RD POSTTT Good article
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PuppiLuv

20/Female
Virgin Islands (US)
Posted On: September 25, 2008
I need to work on getting one then this stuff, why dump your lover/lovette???

Converse
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tootoorooroo

19/Female
Hanford, CA
Posted On: September 25, 2008
good advice...I might need it later

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