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(February 20, 2007 by support Send DollMail )
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Got love? While it would be wrong to say that everyone wants someone special in their life, a lot of people are interested in finding someone special. Of course wanting and getting are two totally different things. Just how do you land a boyfriend?

Be Friendly

The easiest way to make members of the opposite sex take interest is to just be friendly. Smile a lot, laugh, and be sociable. If you are pretty shy most of the time, boys might think that means you aren't talking because you don't like them. Find a way to make sure everyone knows you are engaged in the conversation, even if you let everyone else talk and you just smile at the right times. Guys like girls who can have a good time, so simply enjoy yourself as often as you can.

Flirt, Baby, Flirt!

If there is a certain boy who has definitely caught your eye, you can always unleash some of the age old flirting techniques. Flirting seems to come naturally to some girls, but is hard for others. Don't worry; the same is true for boys. Some boys have no problem taking a chance and talking to a girl. Other boys need a bit of encouragement. That is where you have to take charge.

Look at him until he meets your eyes and then smile. If that seems too much to bear, look at him, wait for him to look at you and then just look down. He'll know you were looking, and if he "catches" you a few times a day, he'll have a pretty good idea you want to get to know him a bit better. Find a reason to talk to him. Ask him about the homework assignment (even if you know everything about it.) You certainly don't have to play dumb, but a simple, "Hey, did we have homework in math today?" can start a conversation.

Be Comfortable and Classy

Don't change for a boy. If you like jeans and t-shirts don't let anyone try to talk you into wearing short skirts and dresses. On the flip side, if you like to dress up, don't start wearing sweats because you think it will catch a jock's eye. Wear what makes you feel good. If you feel good, chances are you'll look good, too. Play around and find cute, but comfy outfits here on the Doll Palace.

Of course, we all know boys are visual "learners." However, you are interested in only one (okay, maybe two) boys Ė not the male half of the school and every other male on the planet. You don't need to put your assets on display. If you think a skimpy outfit will catch his eye, you're probably right. The only drawback is that it will catch just about every eye in the building. It's better to wear something flattering and stylish than have to worry about bending too far over or keeping everyone from getting a sneak peek down your shirt.

Don't Settle

Okay, you want a boyfriend. Hopefully you aren't one of the girls that are so desperate for a second half you'll settle for anyone who gives you attention. You are in a position to be picky. Find guys that interest you and that make you feel comfortable. If you dislike a guy or are embarrassed to be around him, why would you go out with him? It can be very awkward to tell a guy no, but it's better to let him know upfront you aren't interested in him romantically than to hurt his feelings more by breaking up with him in a few weeks.

You know this already, but no girl ever needs to offer a boy more than she is comfortable with to keep or get him as her boyfriend. There is someone for everyone out there, and things will work out for you in time. It might be hard to wait for your perfect boyfriend while everyone else seems to be part of a couple, but when you do find someone special, your relationship will be deeper and more meaningful for having waited for just the right guy to come along.


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B1T3_M3

105/Female
United Kingdom
Posted On: March 16, 2007
i just well cant ge a bf no matter wat

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dollyangel1993

21/Female
Black Eagle, MT
Posted On: February 27, 2007
This article is wonderful and really helps try those tips they really work was single but now have a wonderful bf and i feel soooooo comfortable around!
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bunnypixie

107/Female
Galt, CA
Posted On: February 26, 2007
Wonderful information needed more of this when I was a bit younger! Hey I was Lucky,I've been married for almost 15 years.I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST IN FINDING YOUR SOMEONE SPEICAL!!!
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Roseh

24/Female
United Kingdom
Posted On: February 26, 2007
Definitely.
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Melodyrose9

19/Female
Middleville, MI
Posted On: February 25, 2007
Nice Article, might accually help somewhat..
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Erika999

24/Female
ID
Posted On: February 25, 2007
i loved it i have a boy friend that im going to break up with u gave me a very good idea thanks!

Erika999
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Erika999

24/Female
ID
Posted On: February 25, 2007
i love the advice i might use it on daniel o well i love him

P.S.

he is a jock
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Hollimer

23/Female
Torrance, CA
Posted On: February 24, 2007
this article is great. thanxxx!!!!!

-Hollimer
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amydally

20/Female
Milton, WA
Posted On: February 24, 2007
I feel as though all this information is correct, I have had quite a few BFs but I can never seem 2 find the right one!! but thats ok! Im a survivor!! even though im bleeding on the inside, and crying on the outside but dont listen 2 me I dont know what im talking, I think this advise is 100000000000% correct!!
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Dead_or_Alive

22/Female
United Kingdom
Posted On: February 22, 2007
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lissymarie

22/Female
Granada Hills, CA
Posted On: February 21, 2007
luv the article!
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sweetiecat123

20/Female
Posted On: February 21, 2007
This was a really well written article, and good advice too, even if I've heard it a million times... but ignore me. Great article though.
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darkestfaerieg

21/Female
Saint Leonard, MD
Posted On: February 21, 2007
wow. this came rite in time. *grins*
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crazykiek

46/Female
North Huntingdon, PA
Posted On: February 21, 2007
i didnt get a boyfreind till i was 19 i ahda chance in jr high but i didnt feel i was ready or a realtiuonship or aboyfreind. so dont be ina hurry wait for sum1 special to come along maybe u r kind of akward now i no i was but ull grow out of it and guys will be all over you -not ltieraly i hope. dont grow up to fast
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rvsoccerxox

20/Female
Posted On: February 21, 2007
good article
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